Sugarcoating is Full of Empty Calories (and Promises)

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samples of viagra Over time, this "reward" for helping others (usually in the forms of dopamine or serotonin to the brain) has crept into the arena of avoiding hurting people because it makes us feel bad.

http://ihearthomesllc.com/?x=free-viagra-buy-online-usa We've developed a bias towards good news and found a way to put a positive spin on everything, so we can avoid pain.

source But digging a hole in the sand and sticking our heads in it has led to an epidemic of over-promising and under-delivering, labeling what we hope to be true as 'fact', and using the word "should" way too often (i.e. - that's how it should work).

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  • I'll call you tomorrow.
  • Pick you up at 8:00.
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http://buy-generic-clomid.com No matter how many times we've been burnt in the past, we have this stubborn hope that this time will be different. We want to believe it.

We lie to ourselves for the same reason we lie to everyone else: We don't want to let them down, and we definitely don't want to let ourselves down.

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Short term pleasure, followed by uncomfortable and impossible situations.

If you have to lie, sugarcoat the truth, or over-promise with the guarantee of under-delivering, you are already in an impossible situation, and your chances of victory are slim to none.

Speaking of, does anyone know the difference between a 'slim chance' and a 'fat chance'?

 

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